Friday, June 17, 2011

EXPERIMENTING'Sexual Curiosity


Yesterday someone asked me if I was straight/gay/bi and I said I was straight because I'm out with this girl which I do truly love with all my heart and alway will do. And he made me check up naked girls and naked guys on all the web images. I liked the naked guys. But this morning I now like the naked girls. And think the guys are sick. What the hell is going on to me? I always thought I was straight, always hoped I was. So can someone tell me what the hell is going on?Well,obviously confused.I don't think that human sexuality can easily be categorized into neat labels.Basically,you like what you like.Just because you've been aroused by naked men doesn't mean that you're gay or 'bi'... I suspect that this is fairly common amongst heterosexual males.Another things is that you're very young and you're probably beginning to become more aware of your sexuality.Try not to worry about labeling yourself-you're unique,just like anyone else as regard sexual preference/likes/dislikes.in the words of Carlos Mencia " if u think that your gay then you are gay, thats his opinion but just be straight u won't get made fun of.Why does it have to only be straight/gay/bi? If you haven't had sex yet, you're a virgin. What's wrong with that option? Nothing. Heck it's the perfect answer for any age. Is it possible that you just admired those naked men? There's nothing wrong with that. Your eyes are blessed with sight and there's nothing wrong with noticing beauty. It could have been that the nakedness got you excited not the sexual identity of the people. There's nothing wrong with a naked body. What's wrong are the impure thoughts people have when they look at nakedness. The person who asked you to look at porn was in the wrong and sounds like they are looking at you with sex in mind. Run sweetheart. That's not a friend. If you wanna do a search on porn, search how many lives it is ruining.No matter whatever your age is, I say don't worry about your sexuality at your age. I was going through the same thing at your age, just don't let it get to you. Nobody is going to care if your gay or straight, ok some people might care, but those people are idiots who need to get a grip on life. The only thing you should be worrying about is your school work and your responsibilities. You have a girlfriend, and you truly love her. I had a girlfriend and I loved her too, but when it came down to it she fully accepted me for who I was and am today when I came out of the closet. Your true friends and family won't care weather you are gay, straight or bi. You have years before you even have to worry about having a sexual relationship. And its true; if you don't know, we don't either. And your probably just curious, so don't worry!At 14 your body is going through some heavy changes. It is releasing all sorts of hormones and things, simply put you are in puberty. I did it, my friends did it, it is very normal. You will find girls attractive, and you will find boys attractive. At this stage of the game it isn't am I gay or Straight, it is normal. Many guys do it, I've looked at the guys in the locker room, and online to see what the other guy has, it's curiosity. Some guys even get into sex with each other, it's experimenting. Sometimes called a circle jerk, guys will sit around and whip it out to see who was bigger who came first and how much. Just relax and enjoy life, maybe you will experiment? maybe not. Most of the times as the guy gets older and his hormones steady themselves he will realize that he wants women, sometimes he will decide he wants to be with guys. And even sometimes you just never make up your mind and sleep with whatever sex is handy at the time. Just right now don't sweat it. Being bi could have it's benefits. It increases your chance of a date on Saturday night.You are young, please don't be bothered about how you felt, it's normal. It's OK you are growing up and discovering your sexuality. You are normal, you maybe confused but I can guarantee 99% of people your age are feeling the same.Ur curious. doubt you are gay. people get aroused in many different ways and to be honest I get turned on by girl on girl. have tried it and liked it yet know i that i would only ever date a bloke. maybe the blokes turned u on for the fact that it was all to do with sex and at at some point, a lot get turned on by anything even more so when the thought of sex is involved so do not worry. look around the boys in your year would u like to take them on a date and when you answer that u answer your question. good luck.I have a lot of gay friends. They say they always knew they were straight. If you are worrying about what you are, odds are you are straight. You don't have to be gay or bi to appreciate a man's or a woman's body. You're full of hormones. Either way, you will be fine. Don't make others define you. Life is a journey and you're in the early stages of discovery. So don't freak out.just because you are sexually attracted to a naked males body doesn't mean that you are gay or bi, it just means that something in your brain is triggered that makes you sexually excited. screw what people say or think just do what makes you happy.At first, you have to know the fact that what is gay, bi or straight? Whether you are gay or straight or bisexual it depends on the sexual orientation. Not your general behaviors. Well is part of discovering. Don't worry a label isn't needed to fit into society. You'll find out as time goes by. - AnonymousYesterday someone asked me if I was straight/gay/bi and I said I was straight because I'm out with this girl which I do truly love with all my heart and alway will do. And he made me check up naked girls and naked guys on all the web images. I liked the naked guys. But this morning I now like the naked girls. And think the guys are sick. What the hell is going on to me? I always thought I was straight, always hoped I was. So can someone tell me what the hell is going on?

Well,obviously confused.I don't think that human sexuality can easily be categorized into neat labels.Basically,you like what you like.Just because you've been aroused by naked men doesn't mean that you're gay or 'bi'... I suspect that this is fairly common amongst heterosexual males.Another things is that you're very young and you're probably beginning to become more aware of your sexuality.Try not to worry about labeling yourself-you're unique,just like anyone else as regard sexual preference/likes/dislikes.

in the words of Carlos Mencia " if u think that your gay then you are gay, thats his opinion but just be straight u won't get made fun of.

Why does it have to only be straight/gay/bi? If you haven't had sex yet, you're a virgin. What's wrong with that option? Nothing. Heck it's the perfect answer for any age. Is it possible that you just admired those naked men? There's nothing wrong with that. Your eyes are blessed with sight and there's nothing wrong with noticing beauty. It could have been that the nakedness got you excited not the sexual identity of the people. There's nothing wrong with a naked body. What's wrong are the impure thoughts people have when they look at nakedness. The person who asked you to look at porn was in the wrong and sounds like they are looking at you with sex in mind. Run sweetheart. That's not a friend. If you wanna do a search on porn, search how many lives it is ruining.

No matter whatever your age is, I say don't worry about your sexuality at your age. I was going through the same thing at your age, just don't let it get to you. Nobody is going to care if your gay or straight, ok some people might care, but those people are idiots who need to get a grip on life. The only thing you should be worrying about is your school work and your responsibilities. You have a girlfriend, and you truly love her. I had a girlfriend and I loved her too, but when it came down to it she fully accepted me for who I was and am today when I came out of the closet. Your true friends and family won't care weather you are gay, straight or bi. You have years before you even have to worry about having a sexual relationship. And its true; if you don't know, we don't either. And your probably just curious, so don't worry!

At 14 your body is going through some heavy changes. It is releasing all sorts of hormones and things, simply put you are in puberty. I did it, my friends did it, it is very normal. You will find girls attractive, and you will find boys attractive. At this stage of the game it isn't am I gay or Straight, it is normal. Many guys do it, I've looked at the guys in the locker room, and online to see what the other guy has, it's curiosity. Some guys even get into sex with each other, it's experimenting. Sometimes called a circle jerk, guys will sit around and whip it out to see who was bigger who came first and how much. Just relax and enjoy life, maybe you will experiment? maybe not. Most of the times as the guy gets older and his hormones steady themselves he will realize that he wants women, sometimes he will decide he wants to be with guys. And even sometimes you just never make up your mind and sleep with whatever sex is handy at the time. Just right now don't sweat it. Being bi could have it's benefits. It increases your chance of a date on Saturday night.

You are young, please don't be bothered about how you felt, it's normal. It's OK you are growing up and discovering your sexuality. You are normal, you maybe confused but I can guarantee 99% of people your age are feeling the same.

Ur curious. doubt you are gay. people get aroused in many different ways and to be honest I get turned on by girl on girl. have tried it and liked it yet know i that i would only ever date a bloke. maybe the blokes turned u on for the fact that it was all to do with sex and at at some point, a lot get turned on by anything even more so when the thought of sex is involved so do not worry. look around the boys in your year would u like to take them on a date and when you answer that u answer your question. good luck.

I have a lot of gay friends. They say they always knew they were straight. If you are worrying about what you are, odds are you are straight. You don't have to be gay or bi to appreciate a man's or a woman's body. You're full of hormones. Either way, you will be fine. Don't make others define you. Life is a journey and you're in the early stages of discovery. So don't freak out.

just because you are sexually attracted to a naked males body doesn't mean that you are gay or bi, it just means that something in your brain is triggered that makes you sexually excited. screw what people say or think just do what makes you happy.

At first, you have to know the fact that what is gay, bi or straight? Whether you are gay or straight or bisexual it depends on the sexual orientation. Not your general behaviors. Well is part of discovering. Don't worry a label isn't needed to fit into society. You'll find out as time goes by. - Anonymous

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